Train yourself to be a ravishing woman of desire, brilliant in bed and completely irresistible to her man. How? Conditioning.
And what is conditioning again?
Review: repetitive, associated learning; take a situation, introduce a variable, result with a learned behavior.
With every variable, I use the words EVERY TIME. That’s because for conditioning to be effective, it MUST be consistent. Why do you see those horribly behaved kids at the grocery store? Their parents may believe in discipline, but they are not consistent. The child must be punished EVERY SINGLE TIME they act up. Otherwise, it doesn’t mean anything.
The same thing goes for sex. To condition yourself to desire and enjoy sex, you must have a consistent variable. In most cases, the variable should be performed by your partner. This is the part your man needs to read. If he wants more nooky, he needs to step up. Here are some conditions of sexual conditioning (and it really really works, guys):
Situation: Husband wants sex, you’re too stressed
Variable: He always gives you a back rub when asking for sex
Reaction: You associate a request for sex with a relaxing back rub
Situation: He wants sex, you have dishes (or other chore) to do
Variable: He always does the dishes (or other chore) before asking for sex
Reaction: You know he’ll help clean up when he wants nooky
Situation: He wants head (duh)
Variable: He always keeps things clean and shaved
Reaction: You associate his penis with cleanliness
Situation: He wants head (again, duh)
Variable: He gives you oral sex every time he requests head
Reaction: You associate his oral pleasure with your oral pleasure
Situation: He wants to watch porn with you
Variable: He always takes extra time pleasing you when the porn’s on
Reaction: You associate porn with awesome sex
Situation: He wants you to wear sexy lingerie
Variable: He takes you on a romantic date/shopping trip to buy new panties
Reaction: You associate sexy nighties with date night
When a woman is dealing with low libido, it’s a struggle – she may feel unattractive, depressed, confused (or so I’ve heard; yes, I’m a nympho); it’s a battle she shouldn’t have to fight alone, if she’s in a loving relationship. Guys, you can help. What’s a five-minute (or longer) back rub, if it will help re-kindle your sexual relationship? If your woman has low libido (and wants to FIX IT), this is your chance to romance her, and help get her back in the mood.
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