4. Play dress-up
“While you may shiver at the thought of shiny PVC, many dress-up costumes had the more voluptuous lady in mind when they were created.
“Wench outfits, French maids, or saloon girls were never waif-thin and most of these costumes come with a corset that will cinch you in while he sits back and enjoys the view none the wiser!”
5. Get belly sexy
“Dancing is one of the most provocative ways to whet his appetite for a session between the sheets, so why not choose something made for curvy ladies?
“Belly dancing is a great way to celebrate your curves, and once you have learned the moves, you can give him a private dance in the bedroom.
“What’s more, belly dancing really zaps the calories, so you’ll look and feel better too!”
6. Look at your body
“While Gok Wan televised the idea, most women above a size ten are pretty frightened to take a really good look at themselves.
“And the truth is, if you spend enough time staring at it, you’ll start to forget the pre-conditioned negatives and see something beautiful.
“Spend ten minutes every day laying down as you might do before sex and really looking at yourself in the mirror.
“While your bum/arms/thighs might be too big, you might have the perfect calves/breasts/shoulders too.
“Also remember that the curves and shapes you dislike are those that will send your man wild – most men love women’s bodies to be very different to their own.”
7. Take control
“The fewer hang-ups you have about your body, the sexier you will be to him – so show him that all your care about is having a good time in bed!
“Shock him by doing it in front of the mirror or putting on a saucy strip show.
“He’ll be so wowed by your newfound confidence, he’ll never notice the odd lump and bump.”
8. Let there be light
“You shouldn’t be afraid of cracking open the shutters or switching on the light when getting down to it, but there is one careful trick that can make you confident you will look dazzling.
“Stand with the light behind you when giving him a show of your naked bod.
“It will instantly shave off a couple of inches from your body.”
9. Take a tip from Marilyn
“With burlesque hitting the scenes big time, 50s-style underwear is back in with a boom.
“Get the Marilyn Monroe look by getting yourself a hip to waist garter belt, and a big pointed basque.
“Agent Provocateur have some great styles that are super sexy, but forgiving to any figure too.”
10. Pencil it in
“Ask your man to take an eyebrow pencil (or chocolate body paint and a small brush to lick off later) and get him to circle his favourite parts of you.
“You will be really surprised at the bits that he loves.
“This should secure your mind that he finds you extremely sexy all over.
“Why not turn it into a sexy game and do the same back to him? You’ll be writhing around between the sheets in no time!”
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