Even the best of couples sometimes feel as if sex with their spouse has become routine.
The simplest way to add excitement to overcome or avoid this is to provide plenty of variety in your love life at home. While the bedroom is usually first choice for sex at home, limiting yourself to only one location for sex may mean you are missing out on the opportunity to add some spice by mixing things up. Here are some ideas for alternate lovemaking locations in and around the home that can help add a little more excitement…
In the kitchen:
On the kitchen table – With her lying on top with her bottom near the edge while he stands and delivers the goods.
On the kitchen counter – Same as above or have her just bend over or place one leg on the counter. Add a little extra fun by reaching for a spatula and lightly spanking her bare bottom.
In the living room:
On the couch or loveseat – You can both get horizontal. He can sit and lean backward while she climbs on top of him in the sitting position. She can sit and lean back while he kneels in front of her on the floor. Have her stand with one leg on the couch while he stands behind her. Or try it with both of you on the floor on your knees with her bending forward with her chest on the couch or on an ottoman.
On a comfy rug in front of a glowing fireplace is always a perfect place to make some sparks together.
On the stairway:
Be sure to exercise a little caution and safety but the stairs are another great place to utilize the “doggie style” position or to have him sit on the stairs while she sits on top of him (facing away).
In the bathroom:
In the shower – The shower can be a very sensual place for a hot sexual encounter. Start by lathering each other up and doing the “slip and slide” against one another’s body (front and back). This is a very stimulating, is good clean fun and is sure to lead to a very steamy shower encounter.
In the garage:
Oh yes, the garage is another place to add some excitement to your love life. Make new memories in, on, or against the car. Try it on or next to the work bench. Be creative!
On the back patio:
Whether or not you have a privacy fence, try having a hot sexual encounter outdoors on the patio furniture or by throwing down a blanket on the deck. The kid’s jungle gym or swing set may also provide for some sexual inspiration as well. Just don’t get caught by the neighbors!
In the basement or laundry room:
Sex on the washing machine on the spin cycle can provide for lots of extra stimulation. Other places for an exciting love session might include a family room, on the pool table or in the hot tub.
Try having sex every once and awhile in an “alternate” location outside of the bedroom. It is those encounters that are likely to become the most memorable. Come up with some new and exciting locations of your own to add variety and reduce the possibility of sexual boredom in your relationship.
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